So you just met someone special, and you want to rev up a romantic love story with him, but is he not into you yet?
Well, first and foremost congratulations, and now let’s get right into it. Read amazing tips to impress a boy on chat and make him love you.
Impressing boys is a simple and easy task, at least for girls. Any girl can entice boys with just a smile and sexy look, and make them invariably fall for them. But, when there is distance– things get complicated. It’s very confusing, and difficult to impress a boy on a chat, mostly due to the fact that, texts cannot carry same emotional weight and significance like the spoken words. Also, you have the advantage of your presence when speaking face to face.
But, that does not mean it’s impossible; it is, in fact easier, if you are not comfortable to speak upfront. Showing care(just not too much), having interesting and engaging conversations, will help you improve your chances of impressing your prince charming. Here is a list of simple ways on how to impress a boy on chat.
#1 Don’t seem desperate:
The golden rule of impressing anyone is, play it cool. However, in the case of impressing boys, you have to play even cooler.
Instead of looking desperate, you have to play little hard to get. This will make you more reserved, mysterious and interesting. Boys fall for that stuff. They have a tendency to ignore the woman who is easy. So, you ought to give them what they want.
However, I do not mean that you have to reply very late to every text to you get. Just make sure you don’t reply within nanoseconds after you get his reply, reply within a considerable amount of time.
#2 Be yourself:
If you are attracted to a person who does not appreciate who you are, they really are not worth your time. A good person, always appreciates who you are. So, the boys are always into someone you are, but not someone you pretend to be.
So, when you are chatting with him, give honest answers and be yourself. I know you are very cool, funny and smart– show that to him. Don’t exaggerate things and intertwine expensive lies. They will never help you attract anyone, or even if you do, they will come to haunt you in the future.
Give your honest opinions and replies in the chat. And, read carefully about what he says. Show care but just don’t overdo it.
Being yourself, will give you the confidence to talk and make yourself presentable, when you meet him in person. Boys love girls with confidence and self-respect.
#3 Keep it short.
Have you ever got a long text from someone, that apparently seemed like a college application, rather than text? Of course, you do. We all have those friends, and we never read those texts.
So, don’t be that friend.
Always keep it short and simple. Even though you might feel an anticipation to write everything at once, DON’T. You have all the time in the world until you ruin it.
Short texts will keep your conversation interesting, and keep him invested in your texts messages.
#4 Maintain your presence.
This is the most important part of the process, if you are looking to impress someone online. You have to maintain your presence to talk with them in the first place. Be online whenever he is online. If you already know the person, it will be an easy job. But, it might be a problem if you don’t know each other. You need to ask when he will be coming online next.
As a girl, you don’t always have to send a text once you are there. Boys generally start a conversation, but you can always be bold and send him a humble greeting.
But, don’t send plain stupid ‘Hi’ or ‘Hello’, try something fun like ‘Knock Knock’, or something similar.
Interesting starters lead to interesting conversations, one you might actually enjoy having.
#5 Use pictures and Emojis.
When I had a crush on a boy, I had a very hard time. I had to write everything and it was incredibly difficult to express my feelings.
Now, you can do all that with simple emojis and pictures. Use emojis to express your feelings, but be sure not to use too many. It will help him identify the tone of texts you are sending, like whether you are joking, or having a serious conversation.
You can also incorporate some funny GIFs to keep the conversation full of humor.
If you are on Facebook or Messenger, stickers are a great way to express yourself (sometimes even better than words), and keep the spirit of conversation alive.
#6 Flirt with him.
There is no better way to make a boy fall in love than flirting. It will instantly give him a hint that you are interested in him, and cut the chase if he is interested.
If you keep on talking with a boy, without giving the hint of interest, you might fall into very dark place-FRIENDZONE’. So, give occasional hints of your interests in him, without overexpressing and being desperate. Like girls, boys do like the appreciation– relish him, and show him that you care. Ask if he already has someone, if he says no –it always means green light.
Use his name, this will make conversation much more interesting and passionate. Also, never pull your conversation too much. Never let the sessions of your conversation bore either of you. Don’t ask about his ex, or any sensitive information if you are not there yet. But, you can slowly move to more close and intimate conversations slowly.
Moreover, dare yourself- ask him questions about his life, hobbies, and interests? Show that you care about his opinions when he sends them.
Refrain yourself from sending offensive and vulgar texts, and never text when you are drunk. It might break the magic created between you two. Last, but not least; don’t just talk. Have a courage and go on date.